sooo tired...

I so very much want to go to bed and go to sleep but my brain is buzzing :-s Vicki has been being bullied at school right (along with her friends Sharna & Michaela) including having a knife held to them (that boy has been expelled) but now the boys cousin is bulling them.. punched Vicki the other day and I get a phone call from Sharnas grandma to say that we'll be receiving letters tomorrow from the school advising that Vicki, Sharna & Michaela are to attend a mediation with this girl on Monday because THEY are bullying HER!! WTF!?!?!?! The school have also called in education qld! ummm how did it go from Vicki & co being the victims to, less than 24 hrs later, THEY are the bullies? And how did it go from Me being TOTALLY clueless about this to a mediation inclusive of education qld??? Is there not a process they need to go through? ie: a warning, maybe a talking to and a behaviour contract, a phone call to the parents to say "Hey.. Your daughter is being a bully.. Help us deal with it?".. SURELY it doesn't go STRAIGHT to mediation?? and without me being told!! I had to hear it from another parent for crying out loud! So I called Education Qld to see what Vickis rights are.. spoke with the woman that will be there and she asked what I understood the situation to be.. ummmmmmmmmm It's VERY different to what SHE has been told and she cannot believe that the school haven't contacted me before now! especially given we have had a lot of contact with the school over the last few weeks because of the knife incident.. The school are also claiming that this is not related to that.. ummmm It was started BY the other incident so how are they not related???? ARGH! So wish I had the money, patience, ability and know-how to homeschool!